Relationships are an essential part of a human being’s development as nobody was meant to do life alone. These relationships are initially thrown on us from childhood but as we grow older we get to choose the ones we want to keep and let go of. Today I wonder, where Read more…
Your love is sweeter than wine Songs of Solomon 4:10 ‘I love you’ has to be the most abused phrase on the planet. Some say it because they want a favour from the other person or because that is what people usually say in relationships. I honestly think many people Read more…
Is it me or has the tension of Valentine’s day increased this year? It seems like everyone is booed up and the number of people planning to tension the ‘singles to pringles’ has greatly increased. As we are approaching Valentine’s Day though, I want us to remind ourselves what love Read more…
Love is patient and kind 1 Corinthians 13:4 The journey in and to love is a long one and love is patient, so, there is no love without the virtue of patience. From the point where boy meets girl and trying to place a label on what they feel. To making Read more…
I am yet to meet a mature man who does not want a godly woman to raise their children. Many of my male friends and colleagues unanimously agree on this. I believe this is because women are natural nurturers. So, no matter how involved a man is in that child’s Read more…
There is a surge of weddings and engagements this season. In my opinion, plans were put on hold because of Covid and now many people do not want this year to pass them by. In a season of so many “I do’s” it gets tough for the single ones who Read more…
Ask a young woman what are the qualities she wants in a man and she would usually start with he should be a God fearing man. There is this belief that a God fearing man would not do things like cheating on them or beating them up.The question is do Read more…
You know how they say the grass is greener on the other side, the truth is both the people who said it and we the dreamers cannot ascertain what’s on the other side. Going to the other side is a risk and a huge leap of faith. To further buttress Read more…
A popular type of relationship nowadays is what I call a situationship. It is a situation whereby he’s always around; you talk multiple times a day, you’re waiting and preparing yourself for the time when he pops the question as your ‘yes’ is ever ready but the question never surfaces. Read more…
“I want my wife to be a Margaret Thatcher” he said, “I want her to fly”. This was after he narrated that his wife had to go for a month training overseas and his friends were surprised he let her go leaving her child training and housekeeping responsibilities. Competition is Read more…